Al Adab Al Mufrad by Imam Bukhari
Imam Muhammad Ibn Ismail Al Bukhari Rahimahullah (may Allah have mercy on his soul) is well known as a great scholar who has done a tremendous amount of work in the authentication, preservation and narration of Hadith. His collection of Hadith, the Sahih of Bukhari, is considered to be the most authentic book in Hadith. In fact, Sahih Bukhari has a status as one of the fundamental sources of Islamic knowledge right after the Quran itself. The actual title of which is “al-Jaami’ al-Sahih al-Musnad al-Mukhtasar min Umuri Rasooli-llahi wa sunanihi wa Ayyaamihi”. Imam Bukhari collected a lot more Hadith than are included in his Sahih collection. His compilation of the Hadith about the Character of Muslims in his book called Al Adab Al Mufrad.
Al Adab Al Mufrad book should be taught in every Muslim school to really build the character of Muslims. It is a collection that contains Hadith that address various aspects of everyday to show how one should behave in those common situations and occasions. For instance, it includes our manners when it comes to our parents, our relatives, our daughters, our children, our neighbors, orphans in the community and many more. It also mentions common everyday manners for everyday tasks such as sleeping and getting up, visiting friends and receiving guests and other general behavior. In short it covers how a Muslim should behave individually, with his family, relatives and neighbors, with society in general and so on.
If you have not been taught this book in school, it is easy to start at any age. Find and attend a class in your local mosque if possible. If not, maybe take a class online. Or if you’d like, you can pick up a copy and read it yourself. But it is better to study it under a scholar to get the most benefit of the book.
And Allah knows best.